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What should I tell my family and friends?

 

Parkinson's does not just affect the person with the condition. Partners, family members and friends also live with Parkinson's and their individual circumstances will determine how they are affected.

 

Roles within the family may gradually change as the condition progresses. Discussing these changes within the family will help make things easier. Even if you are a naturally upfront sort of person, explaining Parkinson’s to people that you meet in everyday situations can be daunting. How and what you decide to tell others will depend on your relationship with them, but here are some ideas.

 

Be honest. Your family and friends may sense there is something wrong, and pretending otherwise may not necessarily re-assure them. You may be closing down an important source of support for you by not asking for help. Talk to your doctor, the PDS Helpline or with a counsellor at an organisation such as Relate.

 

One of the best sources of support can be talking to other people who are going through the same thing. If you can get your own thoughts in order, it will become much less difficult to explain things to new people that you meet. To find out if there is a branch of the PDS in your area, call the PDS Helpline or visit the Find a local branch section of this website.

 

For further advice on discussing Parkinson's with children, download the Talking to Children about Parkinson’s information sheet in PDF.